Appearing needy dating
Playing the cat-and-mouse dating game can be exhausting.
Whether you’ve just met a guy you like, you’ve been casually dating someone new or you can’t get over your ex, figuring out how to act is anything but easy.
This isn’t being manipulative – guys actually like to pursue women (to a point) and we appreciate having the space to do so (and not being smothered).
If you do this, you’ll have much better luck, I’m sure of it.
Lately though, I always have to text him first, and it takes him FOREVER to reply and sometimes he doesn’t even reply at all unless I text him more than once.
On the other hand, if you keep your life filled with options, you won’t be so hung up on what he does. No good guy in his right mind wants to rescue a woman.You can say something like, “I’m really enjoying getting to know you, but I only get physically involved with someone when I’m in a committed relationship.” When you tell a man this, you’re not making it about HIM.In this situation, you’re allowing him to act that way by accepting it.It’s unfortunate (and it applies to both men and women), but people will only put as much value on you as you put on yourself.