Dating website tricks
I’ve made countless errors, put up stupid pictures, sent even stupider messages and had “sure things” vanish into thin air.
It’s this experience, however, that has enabled me to figure out what the hell I am doing, and I wish to share some of my tips and tricks with you.
Research has also shown that the best time to send a message is on a Sunday afternoon.
That is the time when people are generally bored and are at their computers searching for a bit of companionship after their failed attempts at meeting someone the previous night.
I think everyone has at some point, and imagine how often you would do this if you received 20-50 a day instead of 1 or 2 a week. Most attractive women don’t even open all of their messages simply because they can’t be bothered to sift through them all.
You have to assume that a quick glance at the thumbnails is all she is going to use to decide whether to open the message, so if your main image isn’t the single best photo you own then you are doing yourself a disservice.
Find something that you can grab hold of and use, whether that’s a specific piece of information or just a vibe you’re getting. It’s hard to figure someone out based on just a few words and a picture or two, but you have to learn to go with your instincts.
The more messages you send out, the more replies you will receive.
Try to find something that most people may have missed.
Does she love an obscure movie that you’ve also seen? Is she doing a degree in a subject that you have knowledge about?
There are two main ways to transition away from whatever dating site you are using: the first way is a slower process but it’s probably the safest option, while the second is very “high risk-high reward”, but is the quickest method if done correctly.
The slower method is about building trust and rapport.