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So I want to share 5 golden techniques for keeping a guy hooked well beyond the first few dates: 1.Show DESIRE Without Dependence To play it cool, or to not play it cool? Yes, of course you should be your goofy, amazing, weird self, and have confidence in dating, but as I've gotten back into dating over the last few year I've been surprised to find how many "rules" there are.Yes, we've all pretty much moved away from The Rules , thank goodness— I had to it read in a gender studies class and it made me want to remove my eyeballs.I’m so excited, but I would be even more excited if you were here with me.” This is the perfect line for a guy to hear: it shows that you DESIRE him, but it also shows you have a vibrant, sexy, interesting world he wants to become part of.You are into him, but you’re not DEPENDENT on him to have a good time.
So how do you get him to stay interested in you at this early dating stage? What if he gets bored after a few weeks and moves on? It’s one thing to charm a guy for a couple of hours (or one night of fun), but keeping a guy interested for longer requires an understanding of what creates DEEP attraction.
Any time you are able to show both of these qualities, you are making yourself incredibly valuable in a man’s eyes. Don’t Jump The Gun I’m not against whirlwind romances when they happen, but 95% of the time, it’s important to let things go at their own pace.
The worst thing you can do at this stage is artificially push things forward by assuming commitment too early, or by showing too much possessiveness, or any other type of premature “girlfriend” behaviour, like checking up on him or trying too hard to be a big part of his life.
Resist the temptation to spend entire weekends at his flat slobbing around, watching TV, and generally “hanging out” doing nothing.
While it’s nice to have a lazy morning with him on a Sunday, arrange something in your schedule for that afternoon so that you can leave things on a high and give him a chance to miss you.