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It’s the knowledge of what you are uncomfortable with and what would have you detracting from yourself or living outside of your values that acts as both self-protection and a warning system.

Boundaries teach people how to treat you and what to expect from you but they also impose limits, not just on others but also upon yourself to ensure that you don’t place yourself in dangerous situations or continue to take being treated in a way that detracts fro you.

The electric fence ‘going off’ with your alarm bells ringing is your warning system and it means that you need to address the situation and proceed with caution and work out what the boundary crossing means to you, the relationship, and about the person.

It is important that security measures are ‘upped’ and whether through actions or verbally, you communicate that you are uncomfortable and that this cannot happen again and why.

In some instances, you may not need to explain as the action in itself doesn’t warrant an explanation as it’s obvious why anyone would be uncomfortable.

Boundaries are basically a personal awareness of what you will and won’t accept.

I don’t do being stood up, not interested in someone who would behave in this way – see ya!

Option B is me knowing my boundaries but giving one chance with the idea being that repetition of the behaviour means me going for Option A next time.

If she is your wife, you will have nice and clean home and a gourmet cooking.

If your parents visit your house, they will be please.

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